@arranvid2: she says that she is successful when it comes to her career and money, so she wants to know whether the man that she is dating also is successful when it comes to money and the career, what is wrong with that?
Because it's shallow nonsense.
I thought most women are like that.
Yes, nearly every single one. Doesn't make it alright.
Yes, I personally care more about compatibility when it comes to personalities, and I think of money as a less important thing when it comes to finding true love
If that's a factor at all in regards to evaluating your "love", then it isn't love you have at all. Almost no human is actually capable of what they conceptualize as "true love". Their emotions are shallow and fleeting, with them usually being built off the superficial. (This also includes men as well, yes.) There are very rare exceptions, but I don't think humans merely don't find true love usually, but are legitimately incapable. This ranges across all forms of love. Parental love is instinctive usually, as opposed to truly loving their kid for who they are, so that's out the window. The fact they even risked birthing a child into a messed up world where anything could go wrong, from them being born with any form of illness or mental issue, to something horrible happening in their life that causes them to suffer immensely, shows that they put primitive ape desires above all else.
I think my mum genuinely fell in love with my dad's personality and looks and stuff. I think my dad also fell in love with my mum because of her personality and her looks.
Looks wouldn't be a factor in regards to "true love" though. It could be a nice bonus, but if it is actually a serious important contributing factor to your affection for someone, then you don't actually love them.
OP: I wouldn't say anything because I wouldn't be on a date in the first place. Have better things to do. Even debating fictional characters against unhinged emotionally bias man children is higher on the significance list than dating. It's that irrelevant and nonsensical. The fact people go out and look for relationships and unnaturally try and force them to work over a quick period shows that they don't even know how actual relationships of any kind work. lol
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