What would you do if a woman ask for your bank info on a date?

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#1  Edited By RudyGiuliani

Fairly attractive woman claims she is successful and wants a man who is on her level. She claims that the last 3 men she has gone out with, she has asked for their bank info to see if they are financially successful as her. Now, if you were on a date with this woman, how would you react to her asking for your bank info?

Also this woman kind of highlight on why so many women are miserable in dating. Women think having a job and being attractive means they should be able to marry a guy who is very financially sucessful. This woman isn't an isolated case, there are other video of MOST women on college campus stating they will only settle down with a guy who makes 6 figures or above.

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#2  Edited By noobsnowman

I'll tell her that my bank account value is the same as her body count, then send her back to the streets.

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#3  Edited By LightorDark

I’d tell her if my bank account tells her everything she needs to know about me, then I already know everything I need to know about her.

I’d kindly pay for the drinks or meal (since I can) and leave.

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#4  Edited By dshipp17

In all honesty, this is one of those subconscious reasons that I'm too shy to approach a woman because I feel the need to be able to financially support my girlfriend/wife, and then children; I'm not in a financially stable position but working very hard to resolve my employment litigation issues; however, asking to see my bank information, that's pretty weird and would only trigger that other side or monster within me that's also driving me to keep at this employment litigation with vigor and energy; basically, commonsense would tell you not to do that or you'd get robbed clean by the start of the next business day; remember, only carry around one dollar bills.

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#5  Edited By arctika

I'd tell her to take a hike. They can hide behind the excuse that the first girl says but at the end of the day they just care about the money. Everyone should work both men and women(unless you have a medical reason preventing you) but if someone emphasizes on just money they're not worth my time regardless if I make more or less.

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I'll tell her that my bank account value is the same as her body count, then send her back to the streets.

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I would try not to succesfully marry another hypergamous woman after the next series of dates (with the other hypergamous woman). These types of women seem to be so damn common now. The women-force of hypergamy is 90-95 % of the whole female population in the USA, in 2024, if I had to put my finger on it.

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I would tell her the truth

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#11  Edited By ArranVid2

Sorry but I do not see anything wrong with what the woman in the first video said. I am a bit afraid of watching the other videos, because maybe the other women in the other videos might be more sillier than the first woman. But the first woman seemed ok to me with regard to what she said...she says that she is successful when it comes to her career and money, so she wants to know whether the man that she is dating also is successful when it comes to money and the career, what is wrong with that? I thought most women are like that. Yes, I personally care more about compatibility when it comes to personalities, and I think of money as a less important thing when it comes to finding true love, but there are some people who do think about money first and then the compatibility second. I am thinking about the relationship between my mum and dad. Both are doctors, and my dad earns more than my mum. But both my mum and dad are Consultants, which mean that both of them are at the top of the hierarchy when it comes to skill level of doctor. When it comes to doctors, you have the FY1 and FY2 doctors (Senior House Officer, back in the day) and then you have the next step which is the specialist registrar and finally you are at the top of the skill level when you become a Consultant. I do not think my mum married my dad just because my dad was successful when it comes to wealth and career...although I could be wrong. I think my mum genuinely fell in love with my dad's personality and looks and stuff. I think my dad also fell in love with my mum because of her personality and her looks. It is an interesting family dynamic though, because my dad's parents actually hate my mum and they have always wanted my dad to divorce my mum and they have thought of my mum as a 'low-class thief' but I think that's a separate issue. My dad's younger brother also does not like my mum. Obviously, my mum does not like my dad's parents, because they do not like her.

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Laugh at her and leave. If you’re that insecure and superficial, then you deserve to be alone and unhappy.

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#13  Edited By SeventhMoon

@arranvid2: she says that she is successful when it comes to her career and money, so she wants to know whether the man that she is dating also is successful when it comes to money and the career, what is wrong with that?

Because it's shallow nonsense.

I thought most women are like that.

Yes, nearly every single one. Doesn't make it alright.

Yes, I personally care more about compatibility when it comes to personalities, and I think of money as a less important thing when it comes to finding true love

If that's a factor at all in regards to evaluating your "love", then it isn't love you have at all. Almost no human is actually capable of what they conceptualize as "true love". Their emotions are shallow and fleeting, with them usually being built off the superficial. (This also includes men as well, yes.) There are very rare exceptions, but I don't think humans merely don't find true love usually, but are legitimately incapable. This ranges across all forms of love. Parental love is instinctive usually, as opposed to truly loving their kid for who they are, so that's out the window. The fact they even risked birthing a child into a messed up world where anything could go wrong, from them being born with any form of illness or mental issue, to something horrible happening in their life that causes them to suffer immensely, shows that they put primitive ape desires above all else.

I think my mum genuinely fell in love with my dad's personality and looks and stuff. I think my dad also fell in love with my mum because of her personality and her looks.

Looks wouldn't be a factor in regards to "true love" though. It could be a nice bonus, but if it is actually a serious important contributing factor to your affection for someone, then you don't actually love them.

OP: I wouldn't say anything because I wouldn't be on a date in the first place. Have better things to do. Even debating fictional characters against unhinged emotionally bias man children is higher on the significance list than dating. It's that irrelevant and nonsensical. The fact people go out and look for relationships and unnaturally try and force them to work over a quick period shows that they don't even know how actual relationships of any kind work. lol

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Id say no and go away.